I've know a lot of people who have/are getting married and some have only been dating a couple of month. Now I know that some Christians feel that people can't be a service to the church until their married (I believe that's unbiblical in fact I seem to remember Paul saying the opposite was true)
Now I also know that there is a lot of temptations/desire to have sex and most Christians want to do what’s right and wait until they're married but I think if sex is the only reason why someone is getting marriage then maybe they should just have sex without marriage because both mess with what God intended marriage to be.
Now I don't know the people who are getting married well enough to judge them and say they're getting married for the wrong reasons but it wouldn’t surprise me if some of them are. So what your thoughts about this? Am I totally wrong and is there now wrong reason to get married?
Now I also know that there is a lot of temptations/desire to have sex and most Christians want to do what’s right and wait until they're married but I think if sex is the only reason why someone is getting marriage then maybe they should just have sex without marriage because both mess with what God intended marriage to be.
Now I don't know the people who are getting married well enough to judge them and say they're getting married for the wrong reasons but it wouldn’t surprise me if some of them are. So what your thoughts about this? Am I totally wrong and is there now wrong reason to get married?