mikel.withers June 30th 2015, 8:42 am
I saw something related to that the other day on Facebook.
There is a fairly large caveat in that whole "no remarriage" thing-
Matthew 19: 9 And I tell you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.” Sexual immorality...
I don't want to get legalistic here, there is a heart issue that trumps all the others, but most marriages I've seen break up include some form of sexual immorality, either before the break up, or soon afterward. That being the case, while the divorce itself might not break the covenant of marriage, the sex outside of that marriage sure does.
Not that there can't still be forgiveness... Hosea was told by God to marry a prostitute, one who wasn't faithful to him, as a symbol of God's forgiveness to his idolatrous/adulterous people. In the same way, it would be better for us to reconcile a broken marriage than to simply move on, but back to Matthew 19:8 He told them, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because of the hardness of your hearts. But it was not like that from the beginning. So God knows we live in a world of hardened hearts, and it isn't always possible to reconcile, after all, both people need to desire a reconciliation in this day and age. So, I'll go to my last point-
There is an inherent sin to same-sex marriage (assuming that it is consummated) that is not there for male/female marriage. A remarried person could recognize they broke their first marriage, repent of that sin, and try their best to not to repeat that sin. However, an actively gay couple is founded on a sin; repenting of that would include a fundamental break in a marriage. I'm not saying it is impossible, far from it, but I think we should all be able to recognize that a homosexual person staying in a same-sex marriage, even if that includes celibacy, is going to be hanging out in temptation and not fleeing from it. (And having made marriage vows, the question then becomes which is worse: maintaining those vows or breaking them)