mikel.withers September 22nd 2016, 8:46 am
Emotionally, spiritually, or physically...or all of the above?
I have anxiety disorder with bouts of panic attacks, so I guess I'd have to answer in the affirmative.
I am highly introspective* to the point of paralysis at times. Not physical paralysis, but decision paralysis. Maybe opinion paralysis would be a better wording. I second guess all of my reactions to things and then third guess my second guesses, and examine those third guesses for potential biases.
Take Colin Kaepernick sitting/kneeling during the national anthem... I feel almost like i have multiple personality disorder trying to figure out if I applaud him, boo him, or am really neutral.
"On the one hand, yes but, however, and then there's..."
I've been told I'm a PC Liberal and a white privileged racist on the same topic at the same time on different forum threads. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Anyway, this goes on with physically, where I have a tightness in my shoulders. Well, I sleep poorly and it makes my shoulders kind of seize up, but pain in the shoulders...or is that actually my chest and I'm just mistaken about it being my shoulders? and if it is chest, then should I worry about my heart? I don't eat terribly healthy, or exercise so my heart could be an issue, but every time I go to the doctor's she says it is good, but I sat in front of my computer for eight hours Saturday, maybe it is a blood clot that worked its way through to something important... do blood clots affect the heart, or is it lungs, or the brain... I don't remember, anyway it is probably just sleeping poorly...but do I want to be the guy who ignores the signs of a heart attack because he convinced himself it was nothing? ... ad infinitum (or so it seems)
I take medication for anxiety or else the above scenario could very well evolve into me curled up in a fetal position whimpering and not daring to move lest my heart explode. (no joke, it has happened for days at a time)
Spiritually it doesn't get much better and here is where the asterisk* from above comes in. Is being highly introspective a form of self-centeredness....perhaps pride? I wont put you through another scenario, but replace the physical stuff in the above one with spiritual stuff, and you'll have a pretty good idea of how that plays out.
I think the worst part about it all is that it quite literally puts me in two minds. On the one hand I have the primal, emotional, fearful, me-overexcited and prone to acting out, set against the thoughtful, philosophical, calm me. When I was curled up in a fetal ball fearing for my life, I also had a quite reasonable talk with God. I wasn't really afraid of dying...indeed that seemed like a relaxing out... but my body was reacting in ways my conscious mind had no control over. So, I was afraid, but I wasn't afraid. Hmmm, that isn't logical, perhaps: I was terrified, but I wasn't afraid.
Anyway, I forget where I was going with all of this...
I guess what I'd say, as someone who has done a bit of a study on the phenomena, is that it is pretty normal for people with high intelligence to also be saddled with anxiety. The two seem to go hand in hand.
If it gets to the point where your life is getting hampered by it, then seek help. For me, that help was only gotten through chemical/medical means, but others get good results from counseling and psychology.
Don't be hesitant to get what help you need, as these things also tend to snowball.