Does anyone know why God blesses some but not others?
My sister always seems blessed to get what ever she wants with little to no effort while I seem to be cursed with never getting anything i want no matter how hard i try.
Some examples
A few years back there was a new gym opening up close by and they were having a job fair so i went and did well on the interveiw and they said they would call back for a second interveiw and that is just one of many jobs i didnt get. Now my sister applied for her first job doesnt even fill out the application correctly and still gets it.
I was working hard in college to achieve my childhood dream of working in film and while in school i was having all these doors opening for me only to have them all of the sudden slam close in my face. Now my sis was able to get her dream job while still in school and was working two jobs as i couldnt get one.
So shortly after i graduated my grandma had a stroke and couldnt be left alone so since i was unemeployed i got the job of taking care of her and pretty much said good bye to my dreams but my sister agreed to take care of my grandma one day a week so i could have a day off that was until a she decided to move out almost two years ago .and hasnt given me a day off since. So now she gets all this freedom to go to bible studies, to date do hang out with friends and doesnt do anything to help out her family and i get stuck taking care of my sick grandma and now my sick mom and i cant even get time to go see a movie.
Sorry for the negitve post i've been having a bad couple of weeks and just needed to vent but if anyone does have an answer to my question please let me know
My sister always seems blessed to get what ever she wants with little to no effort while I seem to be cursed with never getting anything i want no matter how hard i try.
Some examples
A few years back there was a new gym opening up close by and they were having a job fair so i went and did well on the interveiw and they said they would call back for a second interveiw and that is just one of many jobs i didnt get. Now my sister applied for her first job doesnt even fill out the application correctly and still gets it.
I was working hard in college to achieve my childhood dream of working in film and while in school i was having all these doors opening for me only to have them all of the sudden slam close in my face. Now my sis was able to get her dream job while still in school and was working two jobs as i couldnt get one.
So shortly after i graduated my grandma had a stroke and couldnt be left alone so since i was unemeployed i got the job of taking care of her and pretty much said good bye to my dreams but my sister agreed to take care of my grandma one day a week so i could have a day off that was until a she decided to move out almost two years ago .and hasnt given me a day off since. So now she gets all this freedom to go to bible studies, to date do hang out with friends and doesnt do anything to help out her family and i get stuck taking care of my sick grandma and now my sick mom and i cant even get time to go see a movie.
Sorry for the negitve post i've been having a bad couple of weeks and just needed to vent but if anyone does have an answer to my question please let me know